BORN AGAIN DAILY · PRINT-FRIENDLY DISCUSSION WORKSHEET

When Home or a Relationship Is Not Safe

Faith does not require enduring violence or coercion. Your safety and the safety of children come first.

Start the conversation

If someone is in immediate danger, call emergency services or move toward a safe location when it is possible to do so. Do not confront an abuser merely because a worksheet suggests it.

Practical next steps

1. Contact a trained domestic violence advocate using a safe device or connection, and ask for individualized safety planning. In the U.S., the National Domestic Violence Hotline offers phone, chat and text support.
2. If you need urgent shelter, ask an advocate or 211 for local options; availability changes and must be confirmed. Pack only what you can safely take, prioritizing medications and critical documents.
3. Tell a trusted person enough to support a safe plan. Avoid public posts or location-sharing that could expose where you are going.
4. Keep records only when doing so is safe. Access to devices, messages, browser history and finances may be monitored by a controlling partner; an advocate can help with safer communication choices.

Read Scripture with the group

• Psalm 82:3-4 — The text calls for defending people facing injustice and vulnerability.
• Ephesians 5:21 — The chapter opens with mutual submission, not a permission slip for intimidation or abuse.

Discuss and respond

What is the safest way to contact a trained advocate today? You do not need to tell your story publicly on this site.

Important: Do not use a prayer form or public forum as a substitute for confidential emergency help. The most appropriate safety plan depends on personal circumstances.