12. Now if _gentlemen_ think it too low an employment to exercise such a devotion as this for their _servants_, let them consider how far they are from the spirit of Christ, who made himself not only an intercessor, but a sacrifice for the whole race of sinful mankind?
Let them consider how miserable their greatness would be, if the Son of God should think it as much below him to pray for them, as they do to pray for their fellow-creatures?
Let them consider how far they are from that spirit, which prays for its most unjust enemies, if they have not kindness enough to pray for those, by whose labours and service they live in ease themselves.
13. Again: If parents should thus make themselves _advocates_ and _intercessors_ with God for their children, constantly applying to heaven in behalf of them, nothing would be more likely, not only to bless their children, but also to dispose their own minds to the performance of every thing that was excellent and praise-worthy.
I don’t suppose, but that the generality of parents remember their children in their prayers. *But the thing here intended is not a general remembrance of them, but a _regular method_ of recommending all their _particular needs_ unto God; and of praying for every such particular _grace_ and _virtue_ for them as their _state_ and _condition_ of life shall seem to require.
The state of parents is a holy state, in some degree like that of the priesthood, and calls upon them to bless their children with their prayers and sacrifices to God. Thus it was that holy _Job_ watched over, and blessed his children, he _sanctified them, he rose up early in the morning, and offered burnt-offerings, according to the number of them all_, Job i. 5.
If parents therefore, considering themselves in this light, should be daily calling upon God in a _solemn, deliberate_ manner, _altering_ and _extending_ their intercessions, as the _state_ and _growth_ of their children required, such devotion would have a mighty influence upon the rest of their lives; it would make them very circumspect in the government of themselves; prudent and careful of every thing they said or did, lest their example should hinder that which they so constantly desired in their prayers.
14. If a father was daily making particular prayers to God, that he would please to inspire his children with _true piety_, _great humility_, and _strict temperance_, what could be more likely to make the father himself become exemplary in these virtues? How naturally would he grow ashamed of wanting such virtues as he thought necessary for his children? So that his prayers for their piety, would be a certain means of exalting his own.
If a father thus considered himself as an intercessor with God for his children, to bless them with his prayers, how would such thoughts make him avoid every thing that was displeasing to God, lest when he prayed for his children, God should reject his prayers?
*How tenderly, how religiously would such a father converse with his children, whom he considered as his little spiritual flock, whose virtues he was to form by his example, encourage by his authority, nourish by his counsel, and prosper by his prayers to God for them?
*How fearful would he be of all unjust ways of raising their fortune, of bringing them up in pride and indulgence, or of making them too fond of the world, lest he should thereby render them incapable of those graces which he was so often beseeching God to grant them?
15. _Lastly_, If all people, when they feel the first approaches of _resentment_, _envy_, or _contempt_, towards others; or if in all little disagreements and misunderstandings whatever, they should, instead of indulging their minds with little, low reflections, have recourse to a more particular intercession with God, for such persons as had raised their envy, resentment, or discontent; this would be a certain way to prevent the growth of all uncharitable tempers.
If you was always to form your prayer at that time to the greatest degree of _contrariety_ to that temper which you was then in, it would be an excellent means of mending your heart.
As for instance: when at any time you find in your heart motions of _envy_ towards any person, whether on account of his _riches_, _power_, _reputation_, _learning_, or _advancement_, if you should immediately pray to God to bless and prosper him in that _very thing_ which raised your envy; if you should repeat your petitions in the strongest terms, beseeching God to grant him all the happiness from the enjoyment of it that can possibly be received, you would soon find it to be the best antidote in the world, to expel the venom of that passion.