Part 103

§ 5. But because the manner of performing this work is of great moment, observe therefore these rules. Enter upon it with right intentions. Aim at the glory of God in the person's salvation. Do it not to get a name, or esteem to thyself, or to bring men to depend upon thee, or to get thee followers, but in obedience to Christ, in imitation of him, and tender love to men's souls. Do not as those, who labor to reform their children or servants from such things as are against their own profit or humor, but never seek to save their souls in the way which God hath appointed. Do it speedily. As you would not have them delay their return, do not you delay to seek their return. While you are purposing to teach and help him, the man goes deeper in debt; wrath is heaping up; sin taking root; custom fastens him; temptations to sin multiply; conscience grows seared; the heart hardened; the Devil rules; Christ is shut out; the Spirit is resisted; God is daily dishonored; His law violated; He is without a servant, and that service from Him which He should have; time runs on; death and judgment are at the door; and what if the man die, and drop into hell, while you are purposing to prevent it? If in the case of his bodily distress, you must _not say to him, Go, and come again, and to-morrow I will give, when thou hast it by thee_;[285] how much less may you delay the succor of his soul? That physician is no better than a murderer, who negligently delayeth till his patient be dead, or past cure. Lay by excuses then, and all lesser business, and _exhort one another daily, while it is called to-day; lest any be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin_.[286] Let your exhortation proceed from compassion and love. To jeer and scoff, to rail and vilify, is not a likely way to reform men, or convert them to God. Go to poor sinners with tears in your eyes, that they may see you believe them to be miserable, and that you unfeignedly pity their case. Deal with them with earnest humble entreatings. Let them perceive it is the desire of your hearts to do them good; that you have no other end but their everlasting happiness; and that it is your sense of their danger, and your love to their souls, that forceth you to speak; even because you _know the terrors of the Lord_, and for fear you should see them in eternal torments. Say to them, "Friend, you know I seek no advantage of my own: The method to please you, and keep your friendship, were to soothe you in your way, or let you alone; but love will not suffer me to see you perish, and be silent. I seek nothing at your hands, but that which is necessary to your own happiness. It is yourself that will have the gain and comfort, if you come to Christ." If we were thus to go to every ignorant, wicked neighbor, what blessed fruit should we quickly see!—Do it with all possible plainness and faithfulness. Do not make their sins less than they are, nor encourage them in a false hope. If you see the case dangerous, speak plainly; "Neighbor I am afraid God hath not yet renewed your soul; I doubt you are not yet recovered _from the power of Satan to God_; I doubt you have not chosen Christ above all, nor unfeignedly taken him for your sovereign Lord. If you had, surely you durst not so easily disobey him, nor neglect his worship in your family, and in public: You could not so eagerly follow the world, and talk of nothing but the things of the world. If you were _in Christ_, you would be _a new creature; old things_ would be _passed away, and all things_ would _become new_. You would have new thoughts, new talk, new company, new endeavors, and a new conversation: Certainly without these you can never be saved: You may think otherwise, and hope better as long as you will, but your hopes will all deceive you and perish with you." Thus must you deal faithfully with men, if ever you intend to do them good. It is not in curing men's souls, as in curing their bodies, where they must not know their danger, lest it hinder the cure. They are here agents in their own cure, and if they know not their misery, they will never bewail it, nor know their need of a Savior. Do it also seriously, zealously, and effectually. Labor to make men know that heaven and hell are not matters to be played with, or passed over with a few careless thoughts. "Is it most certain, that one of these days thou shalt be in everlasting joy or torment; and doth it not awaken thee? Are there so few that find the way of life? So many that go the way of death? Is it so hard to escape? So easy to miscarry? And yet do you sit still and trifle? What do you mean? The world is passing away: Its pleasures, honors, and profits are fading and leaving you: Eternity is a little before you: God is just and jealous: His threatenings are true: The great day will be terrible: Time runs on: Your life is uncertain: You are far behind-hand: Your case is dangerous: If you die to-morrow, how unready are you! With what terror will your souls go out of your bodies! And do you yet loiter? Consider, God is all this while waiting your leisure: His patience beareth: His long-suffering forbeareth: His mercy entreateth you: Christ offers you his blood and merits: The Spirit is persuading: Conscience is accusing: Satan waits to have you: This is your time: Now or never. Had you rather burn in hell, than repent on earth? have Devils your tormentors, than Christ your governor? Will you renounce your part in God and glory, rather than renounce your sins? O friends, what do you think of these things? God hath made you men; do not renounce your reason where you should chiefly use it." Alas, it is not a few dull words between jest and earnest, between sleep and awake, that will rouse a dead-hearted sinner. If a house be on fire, you will not make a cold oration on the nature and danger of fire; but will run, and cry, fire, fire. To tell a man of his sins as softly as Eli did his sons; or reprove him, as gently as Jehoshaphat did Ahab, _Let not the king say so_, usually doth as much harm as good. Lothness to displease men, makes us undo them.